Aug. 1, 2025

With Anxious Kids, We’re Getting the Idea of "Consistency" All Wrong

With Anxious Kids, We’re Getting the Idea of "Consistency" All Wrong

Parents are encouraged to provide “consistency” with their anxious children. But the type of consistency that’s often prescribed is the opposite of what Lynn teaches families. In this episode, Lynn goes after the “consistency trap” and explains the important difference between working to give your child certainty & predictability vs. consistently helping your child move to develop key anxiety-management skills.


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